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“Modern man lives under the illusion that he knows ‘what he wants,’ while he actually wants what he is supposed to want. In order to accept this it is necessary to realize that to know what one really wants is not comparatively easy, as most people think, but one of the most difficult problems any human being has to solve. It is a task we frantically try to avoid by accepting ready-made goals as though they were our own.” Erich Fromm, Escape from Freedom
There are many factors why there seems to be a resurgence of fascist-like sentiments. By fascism, I mean the tendency of large groups of people to walk behind a “strong” leader, like rats that follow the Pied Piper of Hamelin. Reading about colonialism and capitalism has something to do with it, but one of the better books to read is Escape from Freedom, also known as The Fear of Freedom, by Erich Fromm. In short, the book talks about the problems we humans have with freedom, or maybe better said, what we do to fill that void we feel when answers are absent.
The book was written in 1941, but as the following text shows, it could be written for our time where in America, half the population follows their dear leader blindly, but also in the Netherlands, where I come from where the word fascist might be a little bit to strong but following blindly of the leader not.
If we want to fight Fascism, we must understand it. Wishful thinking will not help us. And reciting optimistic formulae will prove to be as inadequate and useless as the ritual of an Indian rain dance. In addition to the problem of the economic and social conditions which have given rise to Fascism, there is a human problem which needs to be understood.
We forget that, although freedom of speech constitutes an important victory in the battle against old restraints, modern man is in a position where much of what “he” thinks and says are the things that everybody else thinks and says; that he has not acquired the ability to think originally – that is, for himself – which alone gives meaning to his claim that nobody can interfere with the expression of his thoughts.
Man represses the irrational passions of destructiveness, hate, envy, revenge; he worships power, money, the sovereign state, the nation; while he pays lip service to the teachings of the great spiritual leaders of the human race, those of Buddha, the prophets, Socrates, Jesus, Mohammed—he has transformed these teachings into a jungle of superstition and idol-worship. How can mankind save itself from destroying itself by this discrepancy between intellectual-technical overmaturity and emotional backwardness?
The following is a translation from the back cover of my Dutch copy of the book:
When man finally freed himself from the rule of the absolute state the medieval church, his ambition for freedom seemed to be realized slowly but surely. However, it soon became clear that, freed from the shackles of the old society, he felt lonely and powerless and was only too willing to exchange his freedom for the secure dependence of some authority.
‘The fear of freedom’ provides a clear analysis of the frightening phenomenon that man cannot cope with his hard-won freedom and on the one hand flees into the blind worship of a leader or an all-powerful state, and on the other hand sacrifices his individuality by allowing himself to be smoothed out in cliché and ready-made forms according to the demands of public opinion. “This interesting book gives much food for thought. It aims to bridge the gap between economics and psychology and shows how a theory that only deals with the way in which one earns one’s bread or a theory that only considers the essence of man will never suffice. In his short but pertinent consideration of the escape into the so-called average personality, anyone who studies the American situation will find important insights.’ (Prof. Dr. Margaret Mead)
‘The tendency to relax the inhibiting effect of the super-ego*, whereby a stream of sentiment and fantasy is released, seems to be a phase in democratic development that recurs again and again. Periods of expansion and contraction alternate: a sudden outburst of previously repressed emotions heralds an era of expansion, until a feeling of fear arises in the Self, ‘the fear of freedom’ that is so excellently described by Fromm.’ (Prof. Dr. Karl Mannheim)
‘Fromm is perfectly within his rights to apply psychoanalytic theory to sociological problems, as he does here. He has done us a service by drawing our attention to the social and spiritual shift that accompanied the Reformation, and his description of the psychology of Nazism is very useful.’ (Prof. Dr. Karl Menninger)
* The superego reflects the internalization of cultural rules, mainly as absorbed from parents, but also other authority figures, and the general cultural ethos. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Id,_ego_and_superego)
When I started my journey into the world of what there is to know about us humans, I liked to go to one of the many second-hand bookstores in the town close to where I was living. For little money, you could buy a few books, and often I read the introduction and then decided if it was worth my time. One of these books was written By Erich Fromm, a German social psychologist with some provoking thoughts. The titles of some of his books speak for themselves: The Fear of Freedom, Man for Himself: An Inquiry into the Psychology of Ethics and The art of loving . From this last book, you can find some quotes and links to the pages of the book at archive.org
“Modern man has transformed himself into a commodity; he experiences his life energy as an investment with which he should make the highest profit, considering his position and the situation on the personality market. He is alienated from himself, from his fellow men and from nature. His main aim is profitable exchange of his skills, knowledge, and of himself, his “personality package” with others who are equally intent on a fair and profitable exchange. Life has no goal except the one to move, no principle except the one of fair exchange, no satisfaction except the one to consume.” The Art of Loving
“But actually, people want to conform to a much higher degree than they are forced to conform, at least in the Western democracies. Most people are not even aware of their need to conform. They live under the illusion that they follow their own ideas and inclinations, that they are individualists, that they have arrived at their opinions as the result of their own thinking—and that it just happens that their ideas are the same as those of the majority.”The Art of Loving
“Education is identical with helping the child realize his potentialities. The opposite of education is manipulation, which is based on the absence of faith in the growth of potentialities and the connection that a child will be right only if the adults put into him what is desirable and suppress what seems to be undesirable.”The Art of Loving
Most people are not even aware of their need to conform. They live under the illusion that they follow their own ideas and inclinations, that they are individualists, that they have arrived at their opinions as the result of their own thinking—and that it just happens that their ideas are the same as those of the majority.
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